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Brother Robert LeGros
You might not expect to find a religious vocation on a pest
control route, but for Brother Robert LeGros, that experience
led him to Holy Cross.
I had befriended a priest who was on my route, recalls
Brother Robert. He introduced me to the vocation of
a Brother and gave me a magazine about the different communities.
In Holy Cross, the guys work in many fields, from doctors
to electricians, teachers, and attorneys, and the article
said a Holy Cross Brother ministers in an area where he is
talented.
I thought I must have some kind of talent, he
laughs, though
I didn’t know what it was. When I called, Holy Cross
responded personally. They asked if they could come and visit,
and that impressed me.
The desire to be a Brother had
first surfaced 21 years earlier when Brother Robert was six,
though he didn’t know
what a Brother was. He had looked into the priesthood, but
that life just wasn’t right for him. Holy Cross gave
him the community, spirituality, and learning he yearned
for.
Yet this commitment, like any worth making, had its challenges.
He
spent his first year, which he really enjoyed, in the candidate
program in Austin. Then he went to Colorado for
his novitiate.
It was a great experience, he says, one
of the best years of my life. Toward the end of the year
I petitioned
to take my temporary vows. But two weeks before the vow ceremony
I started getting a lot of doubts. Even though these vows
weren’t permanent, I thought I shouldn’t do it
if I wasn’t fully confident.
Brother Robert finished the year of studies, left the community,
and moved back to Lake Charles, Louisiana, where he finished
his degree in economics. Yet as he started looking into the
job market, the thought of sitting at a desk doing paperwork
didn’t seem fulfilling.
I’d always wanted to be a teacher, he
says, and
I had stayed in touch with the Holy Cross community in Lake
Charles. In 1995-96, I came back to Austin and did a year
of re-entry. Then I got my first teaching position at St.
Louis Elementary School in Austin, where I found my real
love—teaching eighth- grade religion.
After finishing
his post-novitiate program and teaching for several years
at Holy Cross School in New Orleans, he agreed
to take over the combined Candidate Program and Collegiate
Program at Moreau House, St. Edward’s University in
fall 2002.
For 2003-2004 he worked with six young men who participated
in the programs: three in the candidate program (two aspiring
to be Brothers and one a priest) and three St. Ed’s
students.
I do my best not to distinguish the two groups, says
Brother Robert. We live as one community, with small
differences. The collegians are only required to participate
in meals three times a week, but they choose to do it every
day.
This year Brother Robert has emphasized a few events
that seem to be especially meaningful and engaging for
the students.
They really enjoy Monday faith-sharing, so I’ve made
that a regular experience, he explains. Occasionally
on Fridays we’d have a Mass and dinner where the guys
invited friends and family, and that seemed to be one of
the highlights. Now we do it every Friday, usually with around
20 to 25 guests.
And what would he—a guy who found his vocation in an
unconventional place—tell a young man who feels drawn
to the life of a Brother?
Looking back on my own experience, he says, it’s
a good idea for a young person to look at their pattern in
life. I was in my late 20s, not married and didn’t
have children. That was a pattern that provoked the question, What
is life calling me to?’ It also left the option
of religious life open.
Look at the cues that say, ‘The path you are already
on, what is it bringing you to?’ he suggests. Drastic
turns here and there aren’t necessary to find your
way. The signs may be all around.
I’d also tell a young man that the collegiate program
here applies absolutely no pressure to commit to religious
life, he says. It’s a revelation for any
guy who wants to better his life, and it gives you an ideal
way to look into the life of Holy Cross Brothers.
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